Let Them Talk About You

Here's some things to think about:

I was thinking especially this morning about numbers 2 and 6.  If someone has something to say about you, yep...they should talk to you about it, but we all know that doesn't always happen.  We are all guilty of telling someone else our problems with another person.  If you don't do that and you have absolutely no problem going directly to a person with your problems towards them, awesome!
A lot of the time, people won't tell you directly how they feel because they don't want confrontation any more than you do....so, stop thinking so much about it and don't let it drive you crazy. ( I've been working really hard on doing this myself).  It's okay if someone doesn't like you, or if someone is upset with you.  It's all a part of life.  If we constantly dwell on what we think other people think of us we will worry our lives away.
So, logically we should realize it isn't healthy to obsess over what others think of us! It's none of our business unless they make it our business, and thinking too much about it will only drive you nuts!